Many fear asking for what they need.
There's good reason for that because requests are often met with silence or pushback, and sometimes it's just too much trouble or frightening to ask for what you need.
Generally those with confidence and positive experiences ask for what they need as they've had a history of asking and receiving. Yet some fear to ask, request, or suggest.
As an educator who subscribes to servant leadership, it's my goal to fulfill the requests of the students and families I serve. I think carefully about the requests and try to work with families and students to meet their requests. Sometimes I miss the mark and a parent or child may push more. I accept that as it helps me to see clearly what it is they need or want, and typically the requests are well founded and lead to serving a child in better ways.
As an educator, I want to listen more and respond better. That takes practice and mindfulness. So if you're a parent or student with a need, take the first step and ask the question. Then work with educators to help serve every child well.
